“So let’s start the reframing process with Daddy issues…
Daddy left mommy. Daddy was home but didn’t give you enough attention. Daddy had drinking problems. Daddy played favorites. Daddy started another family…whatever it is that Daddy did in your story that upset you, own it. Admit that you feel a certain way, don’t suppress it as if you’re good. If you
were good, you wouldn’t be so damn weak and defensive.
Females learn how to play defensive before they learn how to play with Barbie because it’s a coping mechanism.
Confront your past, soak it in, now dry your eyes, and grow the fuck up. This isn’t about feeling sorry for yourself; this is about coming to terms with what is really in your head. You want pity. Your life has been defined by some form of unfairness or lack of love. Be mad! Feel robbed! Understand your anger instead of ignoring your hurt! This level of thinking cuts to the real
problem more than looking for someone to say, “Poor thing.
You have the right to be guarded, hardened, promiscuous, violent, angry, or depressed.” So many women wear masks that they only take off once they find a person to trust. That person they confide in becomes their salvation because they need an outlet. You can’t wait for someone to come along and absolve you of your childhood trauma.
Your internal strife can’t be held back until you find a friend, mentor, or husband to finally confess to because that person may never come. You must save yourself!
Take out a piece of paper, write down your frustration, and let it out. Go into a room and scream until you can’t cry anymore. Meditate and place yourself back in your past, and confront it. Check your own baggage by doing any of those internal exercises for as long as you need to do them.
Once it’s poured out, Spartan up and stop feeling sorry for yourself! Fuck your excuse of a bad childhood. This world doesn’t care about what you had to overcome. Tell people your sob story, and then watch them shrug, because you don’t get a cookie for surviving trauma. Do you want sympathy or do you want power?
If you are ready to take responsibility for your life going forward and not keep pointing backward to make excuses for why you are so broken, then let’s rethink your life.”
– You need to understand that Daddy without a tittle is just another dude trying to figure out his own shit.
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