”What makes a man want to stop playing the game and settle down?
That’s a trick question because settling down doesn’t necessitate that he stops playing the game. Even if you aren’t seen as “The one”,a man will still hibernate in your vagina, giving you all the surface benefits of being his girl, but his heart isn’t settled, it’s still longing for The One.
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He will play that boyfriend role, but his effort won’t be 100%. You have experienced this or are experiencing it right now, a man who seems distracted, who keeps saying he cares, who claims he will change, but his actions repeatedly prove that he’s apathetic. You’re confused as to why your “boyfriend” isn’t living up to that title. You wonder why he even bothered to enter into the relationship if he was going to act indifferent. You place blame on yourself because you think something had to cause this change. You search for ways to repair the relationship from your side of the ball as if it’s all your fault.
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You’re missing out on the easy answer that’s right under your nose where your ego dares not look: He isn’t invested in you because you’re a Placeholder!
You are not the permanent solution, just something to tide him over. No matter how good his mask of lies is constructed, the truth peeks through the longer you stay together…”
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